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Im the classic virgoian who believes in perfection. Sometimes people dislike me because they find me acting too cold towards humans. Or maybe they just can't accept my high standards. So, love me or not, u decide.

Screams
Friday, June 16, 2006
when you have to choose between friends and your lover,its difficult yea?perhaps we can still have them both,but no matter what,one party will be disadvantaged.often when we fall in love,we will promise our friends that we will never neglect them and no matter how much reassurance they gave you,you will always know that friends will be on a losing end.does it mean that friendship cannot hold a candle to love?when one is madly in love and indulges in the sweet feeling of being loved,i doubt friends matter to them.well,this may not always be the case.however this is what i thought.like i said,one party will have to sacrifice and friends are the ones.this is not about being jealous of your friend's new-found lover nor whining like a little kid seeking for attention.deep down,yes,we feel happy for our friend and its not easy for him/her to balance the time perfectly(we are not gods........).nevertheless,there is this tiny bit feeling of neglection in us.for those who love,their love is all that they see.true?it seems as if the entire universe revolves around the lovebirds only.
i fear that one day i will behave in the same way,then when i am dedicating my time to my love,my poor friends may be wondering when i can leave some time for them.love is blind.is that true?

[friends are also the ones that make up quite a fair bit in our lives.please dont deny their existence after your love has appeared.spare a kind thought for them.friends are human afterall.they need to be reassured time after time.whatever time you are spending with your love,friends need some too.just a bit.not too greedy yea?]

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