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Im the classic virgoian who believes in perfection. Sometimes people dislike me because they find me acting too cold towards humans. Or maybe they just can't accept my high standards. So, love me or not, u decide.

Screams
Wednesday, July 19, 2006
recently,tv shows which portray alot about family conflicts and those about parents with their kids affected me.ghost whisperer>one of the episodes was about a boy's wish to reunite with his parents after his death because he loves them dearly so.love at 0 degree celsius>again it portrays the dilemma and misery of a boy behind the painful fact that his parent's marriage is tearing apart.this is the show which strikes me the most.it just brings back heart-wrenching memories to me with the images flashing back now and then.im also one of the victims of such incidents.i understand the dilemma,confusion and misery behind everything.perhaps at my age,its not considered to be too young to take the pain.as for the little boy(cast),he's too young and its too cruel for him to accept the problems that had surfaced at such tender age.seeing him cry made me cry as well.for no reason my tears flowed naturally.i know that every single decision parents make are not easy because they gonna have an impact on their kids.for parents who are making a decision to divorce or not to,they are struggling between confused minds.if they choose to mend the broken marriage for the sake of their children,then its good.but if the decision they make means inflicting pain on themselves,its not good at all.what if they go ahead with the divorce?adults will lead happier lives for sure.as for the kids,well,they are no longer in their comfort zone.their previous world of comfort has crumbled and what appears right in front of them is another world they have to adapt and live in.though its hard to blend into the new environment,they just have to survive through the ordeal and face the challenge.
my world has regained back to normal fortunately.the decision was wise.in this case,it's a win-win situation whereby no one gets hurt.imagine at that time i was forced to forsake one of my parents,i will have one love,one heart less to dote me and to care for me.i guess my life at that time will change drastically.i may not be who i am now. i may be a coward.i may be a fighter.god knows....and never shall i forget the troubled times which i went through especially when my o's were nearing.all i need is just one person who is willing to lend me his/her ears.

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