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Im the classic virgoian who believes in perfection. Sometimes people dislike me because they find me acting too cold towards humans. Or maybe they just can't accept my high standards. So, love me or not, u decide.

Screams
Friday, May 19, 2006
what will one look out for in a spouse?appearance?or maybe something deeper than that?
i enjoyed chatting with kok how.i learnt something from him actually though his analogy is always weird but quite true.i asked him whether people go for looks or inner beauty.he said that looks is no doubt an important factor,but it should not be the sole factor in finding a spouse.he compared this to apples.haha...he said that the whole cart of apples may look nice but god knows that they may already be rotten inside.he also added that he would not go for a girl with great looks but poor personality.i agree with what he said.to me,although love starts with physical attraction,it will not last long if this is only the case.its true and normal to admire someone on the outside by the clothes he/she wears,hairstyles etc.a nice appearance will definitely leave a good lasting first impression.however,relationship is built on something more than that.you may not have a good impression of someone but who knows one day you two might end up together?to me,our body is just like a hollow shell.it contains a soul,however,which makes up a complete human being.if the soul is ever to be taken out of it,it will become empty,a lifeless cover which means nothing.so how can looks determine our soul partner or how can it make a relationship lasts?how can physical appearance constitute true love then?
true love is the union of two fated souls.both parties can even communicate non-verbally,which is something incredible.this is called telepathy.it occurs naturally without you even knowing that you have this ability of doing so.both parties can feel each other's existence even though they may be separated physically;read each other's thoughts without them saying out;doing the same things unintentionally...these happen because of an annonymous feeling,i think,or else who can explain how these happen?well,this should be the bonding at a spiritual level between two parties in love.
in whatever cases,one cant deny that we dont go for looks but we must not make it the determinant of a relationship.to me,everyone is unique in their own ways and we are like hidden gems in real life.each and everyone goes in search for a gem which may be hidden elsewhere.its like a present,ya?the wrapping paper may either look dull or attractive but this shall not stop us from unwrapping the present right?beneath a plain cover may lie a real gem,a treasure ya?life is full of unexpected surprises and we will never know what we may or may not be granted.it is through this slow process of unwrapping the gift can we be able to unravel the mystery that lies within.that occurs in love.whatever criteria one may have to look for a spouse like looks,he/she must still go through the slow process of getting to know the opposite party's true self.only then can we discover the rare and unique beauty that is wrapped up all these while...i guess this is far more beautiful than the outer looks.

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